Continuity, Loss, Plain Speaking, War

The Best Way to Memorialize the Dead…

...is to tell their stories. That's what I've tried to do, over the years with my family members, my friends, and many others I've lost over the years.  Some of them certainly didn't start out as natural allies.  But they all ended up beloved. And the only way I can insure that the world remembers… Continue reading The Best Way to Memorialize the Dead…

Family, Friendship, Life

Twelve Little Words–2022

I've written, every now and then, about my New Year's practice of trying to sum up the year that's passed in just twelve words, one for each month.  I'm not much of a diarist, other than in the ways I write my life here and on Ricochet, and as a rule I try not to… Continue reading Twelve Little Words–2022

Loss, Plain Speaking, War

The Best Way to Memorialize the Dead…

...is to tell their stories. That's what I've tried to do, over the years, with my family members--father, mother, husband, stepson Sam, stepson Mike, friend Colleen, Mr. Right's first wife, Auntie Pat, and many others I've lost over the years.  Some of them certainly didn't start out as natural allies.  But they ended up as… Continue reading The Best Way to Memorialize the Dead…

Family, Friendship, Miscellaneous

Memories of 2019

I’ve gone through a little exercise, the past several New Year’s Eves, to try to sum up the year that’s passing in twelve words, one for each month. Herewith, my roundup for 2019: Softness, Family, Broken, Celebration, Construction, Sickness, Renovation, Compromise, Stabilization, Justice, Insurance, Acceptance. In no particular order: Item: Two dear friends with life-threatening illnesses, both… Continue reading Memories of 2019