An oldie-but-goodie from several years ago, inspired by recent family, friend, and social media experiences. "The more things change; the more they stay the same." My considered advice to all those younger than I (I'm 70 at the moment)--after you've had a good look in the mirror and found a way to accept with equanimity… Continue reading Aging Gracefully: The Girl On Your Back
Category: Psychology
Clearing My Spindle, Cleaning My Bowl–2023 Edition
Crimenutely. A post from a five-years-ago New Year's that--with a 2023 update--I think might be worth another look: Let’s be clear: I could write at length about renovation in one of its generally accepted senses. I could write about the house we’ve been building and renovating for over three decades, and which still has a… Continue reading Clearing My Spindle, Cleaning My Bowl–2023 Edition
The Girl On Your Back–2023
There's a post today, July 7, 2023, on Ricochet written by a member from Cambodia. It's a barnburner. It's not on the main feed yet, but those of you who are members (please sign up, if you're not already) can view it now. When (and it's a matter of "when," not "if"), it's promoted to the… Continue reading The Girl On Your Back–2023
The Four Hardest Things to Say in the English Language
No, one of them isn’t Worcestershire Sauce: “There are four things that lead to wisdom. You ready for them?” She nodded, wondering when the police work would begin. “They are four sentences we learn to say, and mean.” Gamache held up his hand as a fist and raised a finger with each point. “I don’t know.… Continue reading The Four Hardest Things to Say in the English Language
The Girl On Your Back
Once upon a time, two Buddhist monks, one young and one old, traveled from their temple in the mountains down to the nearest little town in the foothills of the Himalayas, to beg for alms. As they entered the peaceful valley with rice fields all around, they came to a wide river, by the side… Continue reading The Girl On Your Back
Dealing with Childhood Anxiety: A Radical New Approach!
This is my shocked face. No, really. I am shocked. From, of all places, National Public Radio, a report on a new approach to help kids with anxiety suggests that the best thing to do might be to–wait for it–“let them face their fears.” I about choked on my coffee when I read that. Of course,… Continue reading Dealing with Childhood Anxiety: A Radical New Approach!
Clearing My Spindle, Cleaning My Bowl
Let’s be clear: I could write at length about renovation in one of its generally accepted senses. I could write about the house we’ve been building and renovating for over three decades, and which still has a couple of unpainted surfaces of the original drywall for the interested to view at will (don’t call me,… Continue reading Clearing My Spindle, Cleaning My Bowl